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Move Beyond Pain, Stress, and Weight Loss Struggles with Mind-Body Healing

How Childhood Trauma Affects Health Across a Lifetime: The Link Between Pain and Weight Loss

When we think about childhood trauma, many people imagine dramatic events like abuse or neglect. But trauma often comes in subtler forms: constant criticism, emotional neglect, or learning that your feelings are “too much.” These experiences shape your nervous system from a young age, and over time,...

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Listen to Your Body: How to Break the Cycle of Body Image and Chronic Symptoms

So many women come to me saying they feel betrayed by their bodies. Maybe pain has kept you from exercising, or stress has led to emotional eating. Maybe you’ve tried every diet, only to feel frustrated and disconnected, feeling ashamed every time you look in the mirror.

What if the missing piece i...

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How Childhood Trauma Affects Health Across a Lifetime: Body Image and Weight Loss Struggles

Body Image and Childhood Trauma: Understanding and Healing the Connection 

For many women, body image struggles aren’t just about wanting to “look better.” They’re about deeper wounds, like feelings of not being enough, guilt for taking up space, or shame for having needs. These patterns don’t come...

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How Childhood Trauma Affects Health Across a Lifetime: Understanding Chronic Pain and Illness

When people hear the word “trauma,” they often think of major events: violence, accidents, or abuse. But trauma isn’t always about what happened to you. Sometimes it’s about what didn’t happen: not being comforted when you cried, not feeling safe to express anger, or growing up in a household where ...

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Why Is Pain Worse at Night? 7 Somatic Exercises to Reduce Pain and Improve Sleep

If you’ve ever found yourself tossing and turning in bed, asking, “Why is my pain worse at night?”  you’re not alone. Many women I work with feel relatively okay during the day, only to be hit with leg pain, hip pain, shoulder pain, or even throbbing aches in their feet once the lights go out.

This...

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Neuroplastic Pain: Understanding the Mind-Body Connection

If you’ve been living with chronic pain, you’ve probably asked yourself: “Is neuroplastic pain real?” The short answer is yes, it’s very real. Neuroplastic pain is not “all in your head.” It’s pain generated by changes in the way the nervous system and brain process signals.

The beauty of neuroplas...

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Healing Back Pain: The Mind-Body Connection

If you’ve ever bent over to pick up your shoes and felt a sudden sharp pain in your lower back, or sneezed and thought you’d “thrown your back out,” you know how scary back pain can feel. Many people wonder:

  • “Why does my back hurt when I cough?”

  • “What’s the best treatment for sudden sharp ...

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Pain and Stress: How Stress Can Cause and Increase Pain

Most people know that stress can affect mood, sleep, and energy levels, but few realize just how deeply it impacts pain and symptoms in the body. If you’ve ever wondered why your back hurts after a stressful day, why headaches flare up during busy weeks, or even why you seem to gain weight from stre...

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Pain After Workout: What It Really Means (And Why It’s Not Always Injury)

Most of us have experienced pain after a workout at some point. Sometimes it’s that familiar muscle soreness, but other times it feels more concerning, like back pain after a back workout, jaw pain after workout, or even pelvic pain after workout. These sensations can make you wonder:
Am I hurting m...

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Start Creating Peace: How Nervous System Healing Unlocks Calm, Confidence, and Connection

When most women come to me, they tell me the same thing: “I feel safe in my body.”

And when we try to do somatic exercises, they can't feel their body, other than pain.

They’re caught in constant thought spirals, stuck in stress, and unsure how to break free.

And here’s the truth: you can’t start...

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Mind and Body Healing to Lose Weight and Reduce Pain

If you’ve ever tried to lose weight while also struggling with pain, fatigue, or stress, you know how overwhelming it can feel. Diets tell you to count calories. Doctors tell you to exercise more. Friends say, “Just stay motivated.”

But what if weight loss and pain relief weren’t about pushing hard...

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Weight Loss Plateau? Here’s Why You’re Stuck (and How to Break Through Without More Dieting)

If you’ve been working hard on your health journey and suddenly hit a weight loss plateau, you know how frustrating it feels. You’re eating well, exercising, maybe even tracking your food, and still the scale just won’t budge. It's defeating.

Most advice you’ll find online says it’s about calories ...

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